Opposing Nature (Don’t read this)

There are several characteristic of man which are agreed and defined. Example Anger, Love, Betrayal goes on…. But I felt one is being left out. That’s opposing nature that’s inside every human being. Why do human oppose with no big reason? Where did it all start? May be this started when the world started. Adam was asked not to eat the apple. But he ate it. Opposing is the first nature found in humans. I have noticed it in most people. Even a kid. If you say a kid not to put his fingers into his mouth he will definitely do it. Ask him to tell a poem that he always tells at home in front of others, he will not do that. Who teaches a kid to do so? Nobody. It is an inbound nature. When we keep insisting something, opposing becomes the reverse reaction most of the time. Until teen age, opposing is the nature of humans. They do it for no reason.

But when humans grow up, things are different. They want to oppose others, for several reasons knowingly. Just because they don't like you, Just because you keep on asking them to do it, to show that they are unique, to show that they know more than others. Opposing view starts when something is insisted. This is what happens with kids and teenagers. There are 3 kinds of things that can be generally opposed in day to day life.

1. Asking someone not to do something.
2. Asking some one to do some thing.
3. Sharing an information or experience.

Asking someone not to do something- is 95% opposed by co-humans across ages. You might have noticed it with your kids, parents, spouse, sibling, friends, colleagues and relatives.

Asking some one to do some thing- is opposed comparatively lesser. They just ignore you most of the times.

Sharing an information or experience -is purely based on your relationship with the person and his character. This opposing nature is applicable only for the normal co- humans (To whom we expect something need to be shared/done with them) that we daily meet in life. This might not be applicable for the leaders.

So never insist a person for anything. Just tell your suggestion or share your view once. A human behaves in his own way how he wants to behave.

Akalaivan (aka Ganesh Chandrasekaran)